TO ALL MUSLIMS.WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT THIS "HALAL DATING"?

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Check these sites out, if not informed on what I am articulate about!
http://www.irfi.org/articles/articles_51_100/halal_dating.htm
http://syl.com/articles/datingislamictraditions.html

Is this taboo, or unusual to Islam?

I am Muslim; I determine which there should be a accompany additionally with us if me and this alternative Muslim lady have been to encounter up - to see if we have been compatible. This is to safeguard which I have a great lady to be a mom and a permanent wife, in starting a family. I hold which meaningful the lady previously will give an declaration to her relatives (I have no parents), which there wouldn't be a divorce in the future.

I feel which if "we" (both this lady whom I feel is my essence mate) as grown up adults [she is 24; I am 29] have an agreement…to her parents, to encounter her parents, in which to legislature us…this "halal dating" should be on conditions of not violating anything which would be haraam, I'm a correct? I'll blow up below…

What I mean, is which I similar to this halal dating judgment and, if usually it is on trusting terms; with an agreement to her parents. It should be acceptable? Her relatives do not know of halal dating, and prior to I ask to date their daughter (even yet she is an adult - but the tradition); prior to giving a dowry; I would accept possibly the father or mom to attend us whilst we have been assembly in open to assure them which we have been not to do any musty insinuate commercial operation at the back of their back! I'll go on to have a chaperoned date if it needs to be. I unequivocally similar to this woman, and would hatred to disrepute her parents.

To my Muslim brothers and sisters…please give me your opinions!