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–DATING AT 14?– *WILL PICK BEST ANSWER! =]?
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-PetiteBlondie- asked:
Would which be OK, in your opinion?
I'm 14, he's fifteen branch sixteen (getting his permit in a integrate of months).
– We have both talked about NOT pressuring each alternative in to anything (like sex, etc.)
– We've already been by a lot together (one of the friends attempted to mangle up the friendship), we only talked it out.
– We have never fought about anything (any alternative man I quarrel with him all the time lmao).
– Him and I both incited down a integrate people, so we could get a possibility together.
– He has told me multiform times which he would NEVER mentally, verbally or physically harm me in anyway.
– We have been both grown up for the ages, and we someway assimilate and accept each alternative for who we are.
Would which be OK, in your opinion?
I'm 14, he's fifteen branch sixteen (getting his permit in a integrate of months).
– We have both talked about NOT pressuring each alternative in to anything (like sex, etc.)
– We've already been by a lot together (one of the friends attempted to mangle up the friendship), we only talked it out.
– We have never fought about anything (any alternative man I quarrel with him all the time lmao).
– Him and I both incited down a integrate people, so we could get a possibility together.
– He has told me multiform times which he would NEVER mentally, verbally or physically harm me in anyway.
– We have been both grown up for the ages, and we someway assimilate and accept each alternative for who we are.
What's YOUR perspective how dating? At this age? Feel free to supplement anything!!
7 Comments
August 2nd, 2011 at 7:25 am
I think it would work, but I have a relationship like that and it didnt work but you might be better off
August 2nd, 2011 at 4:56 pm
i think you guys should deffinitly go out i mean thats like1-2 year diffrence, as long as he doesnt expect anything from you that your not ready for the age thing really isnt a big deal
August 5th, 2011 at 12:27 am
If you two feel like giving it a shot, go ahead.
Personally, I chose to not start dating until I was 17 and I was happy with not having the pressure of a relationship at such a young age, but if it doesn't bother you or your parents then give it a shot.
August 5th, 2011 at 2:45 pm
all on maturity girl
im 14 and have dated and been cut with the thorns of rose if u get what i mean but hey life is like that it tends to leave marks
sounds like you really got something with him =)
just be ready for all the emotions and possible heartache and all that stuff…tell you that right now been there done that
but other then that go for it =)
August 7th, 2011 at 6:20 pm
I think that everything that you have listed is very mature, and shows that you could handle a relationship. I do think that 14 is a bit young, but I am assuming that is freshman year in high school, as long as you are careful, I would trust that you could act like an adult in this situation.
However, I would just double check one thing with the guy: what are his intentions, inside and outside of the relationship. Does he want a serious relationship that he has no intention of breaking it off even if college separates the two of you? Or will he not take it seriously at all? and do you want the same thing as him?
Also think about his ambition. Does he set goals for himself. I think that says a lot about a person's character. Obviously, you cannot expect a 16 yr old to know exactly what college/career he wants, but if he aspires to be captain of the basketball team or president of an organization, or just to simply get good grades, it will show his commitment and effort that he applies to everything –including his relationship.
August 11th, 2011 at 3:22 am
I started dating my boyfriend at 14 and he was 16 and we're still happily together and I'm 18 now
age doesn't matter but don't do anything your not ready for like sex
He sound like a good guy dont let him get away
August 12th, 2011 at 11:18 pm
umm. I would have to say it would work but you just need to watch what he is pressuring you into doing. If you really like him go for it. Life is short live it out. Don't worry about what people say unless it is your familey. Also talk to your familey about this guy and maybe have them meet so that your parents or guardians know who he is and how he reacts. :]