MATURE YOUNG MEN (19-25) PLEASE ANSWER. I TOOK A CHANCE ON DATING A YOUNGER MAN, I'M 33 AND HE'S 19?
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We fell in love fast, and I fell hard. We've been close for 4 months. He unexpected pennyless up with me yesterday, utterly out of nowhere.
I would do a lot of things for him. He had no car, usually partial time job, and small money. I, on the alternative hand, since of my age, am flattering financially stable: great job, solid income, own a house, expostulate decent car.
I didnt know which it worried him, but he pronounced which newly he's been feeling down since he feels as yet he is 'dependent' on me. So, he pennyless up with me since he wants to benefit his autonomy on his own. His goals: Full-time job, buy a car on his own, and live on his own.
Needless to say, I am devistated..heartbroken. Money equates to zero to me, and I do not need to be taken caring of. He says which I merit more, and which he wants to be means to give me more. But all I wish is his love, zero more.
He says which he needs to turn his own male and calming me which he still loves me, and which this mangle up has zero to do with girls, dating, etc. He promises me which he will come back, and when he does he will be a improved man.
I told him I would wait for for for him, and he longed for me to. But when I asked him how long; months, years? He didn't know.
My heart says to certitude him and to wait for for for him, he'll be behind only as he's promising.
But, my brain is revelation me, 'Come on now, he's 19. He's going to go out in to the universe and live it up. You've lost him for good."
Please do not criticism on my foolishness..I already know. Just wondering what alternative group his age would think of this situation.
Listen to my heart, or my head?