Feb
15
QUESTION FOR MATURE SINGLE WOMEN?
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nick_nunya2003 asked:
I am a decent looking masculine in my 40's and I'm not in to the club scene. Where does a male my age go to encounter engaging singular women? The grovery store has never worked out well and Bookstores…….well I feel so feign in going there. I'm 6'1/200 and I've been told I'm an generally erotic guy. I do not cheat, am honest and open nonetheless I can't appear to find any one meddlesome in dating. Sure, I have a little prefrences as far as women have been endangered but zero which should have anticipating someone so difficult. I attempted the dating sites but it seems similar to many women there have been customarily looking for a "real" male (whatever which is) or they wish someone immature and abounding who demeanour similar to Brad Pitt. I'm only a normal guy, house/car/job/son/dog, looking someone to share hold up with. Suggestions??
I am a decent looking masculine in my 40's and I'm not in to the club scene. Where does a male my age go to encounter engaging singular women? The grovery store has never worked out well and Bookstores…….well I feel so feign in going there. I'm 6'1/200 and I've been told I'm an generally erotic guy. I do not cheat, am honest and open nonetheless I can't appear to find any one meddlesome in dating. Sure, I have a little prefrences as far as women have been endangered but zero which should have anticipating someone so difficult. I attempted the dating sites but it seems similar to many women there have been customarily looking for a "real" male (whatever which is) or they wish someone immature and abounding who demeanour similar to Brad Pitt. I'm only a normal guy, house/car/job/son/dog, looking someone to share hold up with. Suggestions??
12 Comments
February 15th, 2011 at 2:48 pm
get involved at your son's school and with his activities
church singles group are good too — at a really big church
February 18th, 2011 at 12:10 pm
You may not be into the bar scene, but sometimes you just may find that special someone there, and it doesn't mean she's an alcoholic.
February 18th, 2011 at 11:31 pm
What about sports something like golf or snooker or even poker you can play them in the pub or clubhouse and meet women that way. What about work colleagues?
February 20th, 2011 at 9:40 am
Dude go to church those places are full of women wanting mature honest men !!
February 23rd, 2011 at 3:34 am
OLD FOLKS HOME
February 25th, 2011 at 12:03 am
I agree with Deborah - go to church. That's where you'll find a decent, honest woman like you want.
February 26th, 2011 at 4:47 am
like her ^^ i would just get involved with the comminuity and get outside as much as you can. this will increase your chanced of meeting someone new. and dont be afraid to go up to women and start conversation with them. you cant force yourself to love someone. so whenever it happens it happens.
February 26th, 2011 at 6:30 pm
I know you're not into the bar scene but how about some type of after work networking event. Where I live they have those and business people meet and mingle. You could also try letting a friend hook you up.
February 27th, 2011 at 7:48 am
What sort of activities are you into? Do you do volunteer work or participate in any other kind of group? I would say find the time to get involved in a group that interests you. You'd be able to find like-minded individuals to develop friendships with. And who knows? You may find a woman that you click with and a deeper relationship develops.
February 28th, 2011 at 10:23 pm
Sweetie, we are out here. Keep looking. We are looking too.
Honestly? We don't care how you look, how much you make, we just want somebody who won't lie or cheat and will respect us.
March 4th, 2011 at 4:05 am
You sound perfect to me. I am 45 and have never been married (haven't found the right one yet) and I am also not in the bar scene as well. I've tried the coffee house thing and had some success but bookstores are a good way to meet women. ( I've worked in many bookstores) If you see a woman you like, just sidle up to her to see what she is reading or casually ask her what sort of books she's looking for. If she's looking at a specific type of book (books tell EVERYTHING about a person. I ALWAYS check a date's bookshelf first thing to see if we are compatible. I've tried the dating sites as well, and have come up with no luck. I'd LIKE to find The One before I get too old and it's very frustrating. And Brat Pitt is really not all THAT hot. You probably have a lot going for you; maybe you need to be a little more assertive with women. Good luck to you.
March 5th, 2011 at 7:34 pm
Online. It is the best way to narrow down your search to someone who is looking for the same thing as you and then you don't have to waste time with people who aren't.