I FEEL SO LAME ASKING, BUT THIS GUY IS SO CONFUSING - MAYBE CRAZY? HELP PLEASE?

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okay. i'm a singular mom, and i do not have most time to get out. my crony told me about this free dating website, so i sealed up for it. i never unequivocally took it seriously, but this one man sent me this droll email and it only kinda held my interest. we talked for about a week behind and onward online and i in the future gave him my phone #. we texted for a day or two, afterwards proposed articulate on the phone each night for at slightest a great 3 hours a night. He referred to assembly up after about a week of talking, and I met him at his relatives residence with his crony and his friends girlfriend. We had a unequivocally great time, and I finished up spending the night with him. No sex, only stayed there since I lived kinda far away. We one after another articulate on the phone each night, he told me he favourite me, i told him i favourite him. i picked him up from his work on thursday (he lost his assent for 2 months) and he came over my place. we drank and finished up carrying sex. a lot of it. and he was unequivocally great - it was all unequivocally most about me. he called in late to work so he could take me out to breakfast in the morning. we hung out again with his friends on friday, and he stayed here again. we slept in all day saturday and only kinda talked in bed…. and afterwards went out to dinner. here's what i'm anticipating weird. he is a executive of the association he is at…. and he told me his final name was something opposite than what the company's website pronounced it was. i asked him about it and he pronounced i didn't need to know at the time, but it was great investigator work… (and i quote) "perfect for what i have you sealed up for." i asked him what which meant (he was dipsomaniac at the time) and he only kinda was similar to 'i dunno i was only sayin". he pronounced he had a past hold up which he can't speak about - but he knows how to collect any kind of close (i've seen the collection he has and seen him do it) and he's protected to lift a gun and he goes down to VA beach to sight people how to do something with the bullets or something uncanny similar to which (i do not recollect exactly) and does ETC's in washington… (something militant somethings). i meant this is all things he SAYS. i haven't advanced much, but i've seen his assent to carry, his close picking, his bullet explanation vest, his gun (hollow tip bullets….) and he says he's been all over the universe - sierra leone, fiji, iran, iraq, afghanistan, russia, mexico, etc etc etc. i asked him what he does and he says he can't discuss it me, but it was something he would never go behind to. OH. and he has a small device on him which he pronounced scans for bugs and creates white sound so you can't be recorded? hm. AND he lives in a hotel. he pronounced he doesn't similar to to be scored equally down to a lease. (commitment issues anyone?)

he's 7 years comparison than me (i'm 21, he's roughly 28). i've regularly been grown up for my age, and antiquated guys which were a small older. (usually twenty-three or 24) so i do not know if it's only a age thing which he's not "dating" me yet…. or if he's only personification me. the approach he talks to me unequivocally gets in my head - it's similar to he knows me. and he creates me feel awesome. i suffer spending time with him and articulate to him, but i'm kinda starting to similar to him and i do not wish to if he's only regulating me. i wouldn't even unequivocally mind since i'm enjoying myself a lot… but if he's a small kind of psycho, i wanna mangle it off. do you think he's lying about all or what?? and how can i figure out his intentions but seeking similar to a needy small girl???

we talked about it and pronounced we weren't gonna have sex again utterly yet, it was only a dipsomaniac mistake. and zero has altered in between us - we still speak each night and he texts me a lot during the day. he pays on each date.

i do not know. but being harsh, what have been your thoughts on the total thing??
& he's smart. or at slightest sounds similar to it. he tries to discuss it me all this things about economics, finances, even religion. and i'm regularly unequivocally great at stealing things from people when i wish my privacy, but he can review me SOO well. it's a small un-nerving.

again, i feel sore asking this. i only do not wish to ask my friends…. cuz i'm jealous him a small and i do not wish to demeanour reticent to them.
nikki - appreciate you. that's kinda what i was thinking. i unequivocally wanna similar to him, but something in the behind of my head is revelation me something isn't utterly right. but i've been around a small flattering sore people all my life, so i do not know if i'm only being overly suspicious since i've never met any one similar to him which doesn't only live paycheck to paycheck and eat at mcd's and haven't utterly grown up yet.