HOW DO YOU DEAL WITH A MATURE WOMAN( 10 YEARS OLDER)THAT SEEMS TO LIKE YOU(BUT YOU DONT LIKE HER THAT WAY)?
ByHello i'm 29. I haven't asked her stragith but she kind of hinted she was 10 years comparison or more.
We voice discuss mostly and she's a good friend. She's from Japan. She is the kind of women which didn't get tied together young. And we have fun good conversattions and i have told her about the actuality which i dont have a partner and i instruct i could have one.
And right away she seems to similar to me since she pronounced "I think it wouldn't be which bad dating someone younger" . Then I jokingly pronounced one time when we were articulate about Valentines day "You can send me a valentine card"
and right away she will send it but she's all vehement as if it equates to I similar to her.
I told her We're friends but in her mind…she's descending in love or something.
What to do?
thanks.
I'm twenty-nine masculine from USA. She's maybe 39 or something or comparison from Japan. I haven't even seen her face.
6 Comments
September 25th, 2010 at 2:32 pm
don't you wish she was falling in love with you.she only wants a green card.lol.
September 28th, 2010 at 6:30 pm
NICE ONE DONNA!!!! hhaha
Ask her if there's something deeper than friendship going on between you two. You don't know what she's thinking or feeling.
September 29th, 2010 at 5:38 am
Based on what you've related here, I don't think you have anything to worry about. Sounds like harmless flirtations. But if you're really bothered by the way she's taking this friendship, you need to let her know clearly that you're not interested (assuming that you aren't). If she's indeed falling in love with you, you can't stop her. That'd be impossible. What you can do is to lessen your chat times with her. But if you're not bothered by it, just go with the flow.
October 2nd, 2010 at 1:22 am
just be honest with her and let her know how u feel about the situation.
October 3rd, 2010 at 4:02 pm
JUST SAY NO CAZ SHE WAY TO OLD FOR YOU
October 6th, 2010 at 6:48 pm
when you get the card tell her it was really nice to get a valentine from a friend and you hope she gets more from a special someone soon that way she will know you see her as a friend only.
She could be gorgeous for all you know, but if you ask for her picture she could take that to mean more personal interest too so cool it if you don't want to pursue it.