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CALLING GUYS IN YOUR MID 20S.DATING A WOMAN WHO IS MUCH OLDER? ADVICE PLEASE.
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Ann asked:
I am a lady in her midst 40s. Luckily I am mostly taken for 32, as I stay fit and do not fume or drink. I've never tied together or had young kids as I've had a flattering bustling operative hold up up until right away but I have had a integrate of critical relationships. I've been singular right away for a integrate of years and notice which most guys in their 20s ask me out. Actually I similar to this age organisation as I have right away proposed travelling a lot and you do things I couldn't do when I was younger due to investigate commitments. I have only done friends with a twenty-five year old man & there is a dual approach attraction. He asked my age, I told him around 40, he couldn't hold it and wants to date me observant which at slightest we can be friends. He told me age is a zero to him, all which counts is how great a lady I am and the tie & he wants a grown up woman. I am captivated to him but scared. What should I do? Can this unequivocally have a future? I am a critical person, not a 'fling/one night' at all. He is study a really critical march and I similar to his intelligence.
I am a lady in her midst 40s. Luckily I am mostly taken for 32, as I stay fit and do not fume or drink. I've never tied together or had young kids as I've had a flattering bustling operative hold up up until right away but I have had a integrate of critical relationships. I've been singular right away for a integrate of years and notice which most guys in their 20s ask me out. Actually I similar to this age organisation as I have right away proposed travelling a lot and you do things I couldn't do when I was younger due to investigate commitments. I have only done friends with a twenty-five year old man & there is a dual approach attraction. He asked my age, I told him around 40, he couldn't hold it and wants to date me observant which at slightest we can be friends. He told me age is a zero to him, all which counts is how great a lady I am and the tie & he wants a grown up woman. I am captivated to him but scared. What should I do? Can this unequivocally have a future? I am a critical person, not a 'fling/one night' at all. He is study a really critical march and I similar to his intelligence.
13 Comments
August 26th, 2010 at 2:59 pm
well see how he feels when you are 65 & he is only 45…might change his tune then…i don't think there is a future in it long term…but hey ho - for a fling…go for it!
August 28th, 2010 at 4:24 am
MILFY MILF!!!
Go for it!
August 30th, 2010 at 6:15 am
Fellow ur heart and don't assume things. If the guy likes u n u like him roll with it ma…
August 31st, 2010 at 2:56 pm
Whatever makes you happy you seem obsessed with books and intelligence yeah date a nerd who cannot get down with his age group
September 2nd, 2010 at 12:53 am
have fun. not a serious relationship.
September 2nd, 2010 at 2:55 am
Speaking from experience, I would say go for it if you want to but be prepared for it to end eventually. The love of my life was much younger but alas, the relationship is no more.
September 4th, 2010 at 1:50 am
go for it. Even if it doesn't work out you don't want to regret it.
September 7th, 2010 at 3:18 am
You say you are serious but her being older make sure you are absolutely positive before you further things. Because she could put alot of "stock" in you then if you change your mind she would be not only older but saddened
September 8th, 2010 at 8:53 pm
Sounds like MILF syndrome but only you can judge that. I have been attracted to older women before but I would never have a serious relationship with one but that's just me.
September 9th, 2010 at 5:48 pm
let me be honest with you he wants to have long hot steamy sex with you. p.s i would do the same. you sexy MILF.
September 11th, 2010 at 7:11 am
I am a guy and will give you an honest answer. Yes, there are a lot of us that are attracted to an older woman if she looks amazing for her age. For some it's even a fetish. Older women don't play games and are honest and sincere. Another thing is we know women peak sexually at an older age and want it more so for a young guy that is in his peak…it works out great if you know what I mean…lol! The only thing is that it hardly ever lasts because of the age difference. What I mean is this… if you are around 20 yrs. older than him, when he is 40 you'll be around 60 and prob. not attracted to you anymore. What I am saying is that it could be fine for a few years, but it's prob. just a sex thing with him and wouldn't really want a relationship for a long period of time. I could be wrong, but with that big of a age difference I'm thinking he is just attracted to having an older woman. I don't think you would have a long future with him like marriage or anything. I would be careful if I were you. That's just my advice though…I know how guys operate….but it's prob. just a sexual thing more than a real relationship. Good luck though in whatever you decide to do.
September 13th, 2010 at 5:53 pm
well i think it can work as good as any relationship could…i know for a fact that it can work better for a woman with a younger guy than it can with an older guy and younger woman. casue an older woman can still have very exciting sex when she hits her late 50s and 60s now for a guy that age is starting slow down quit a bit…so if you and he are ok with it i think it could as good as any for you and him..so go for it and just enjoy it no matter how long it last…
September 17th, 2010 at 12:26 am
It could work, but probably not forever. Most guys like older women because of a few reasons. They don't play head games and know what they want, as opposed to younger girls who are often very "flakey."
A lot of guys also like a more mature woman because they are just plain easier to deal with, and don't rely on a man for everything.
And last, but not least, a beautiful woman who is older is just sexy….and usually has more experience in the bedroom, which any guy will appreciate. Not all women age gracefully, so when we see one who still looks really good, if not better than the younger girls, it's a big turn on. Those are the reasons we like cougars/milfs.
Unfortunatly, 90% of women always date older guys, so we have no choice but to date younger girls.
Hopefully that was honest enough!