WHY DON'T GIRLS LIKE ME?
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Ok, I'm eighteen and a Senior in high school.
-I'm true edge: Anti-drugs(including alcohol), and wish to TRY to save my sex for marriage. But, which might not occur, but I swear I will not vigour any lady in to carrying sex if they didn't wish to. Anyway, I've never finished a drug in my life, nor drank alcohol.
-I'm a Christian, some-more privately Catholic. I do attend church.
-I'm 6'1, tan all year around, a small chubby, but I do work out and I have a lot of muslce also. I'm a reduction of German, Italian, and Native American.
-I can be funny and I'm additionally anti-gender roles, I do not think guys should have to ask girls out, compensate for dates, etc, but I additionally do not think girls should have to do the cooking, nurturing, etc.
-My the one preferred competition is baseball, and my hobbies embody operative out, reading, writing, swimming, unresolved out, movies, TV, video games.
-Currently, I work 15-20 hours a week. I've never called off, and I have a undiluted assemblage in school, and have great grades, A's, B's. I additionally do village use hours.
On the down side, I am VERY argumentive and judgemental. And I hold in attack girls for self-defense reasons, since I've seen group abused by their girlfriends since they have been fearful to strike them.
But I've nonetheless to have even a DATE in my LIFE! Why? Every lady I've asked out has deserted me and no girls has ever asked me out, distinct my friends. Girls hatred me as shortly as I speak to them, I'm NEAR perfect!
50 Comments
June 17th, 2010 at 2:04 am
errr well maybe u could b a bit modest !!!!!!!!
June 18th, 2010 at 4:17 am
your a faggot
June 20th, 2010 at 12:16 pm
you work too much….. but ur a very good person. i think i would go out with u. (but i can't….ive got my man)
June 23rd, 2010 at 7:17 am
you're far from perfect if you believe in hitting girls.
June 25th, 2010 at 5:34 am
I don't like you already.
June 27th, 2010 at 6:55 am
Because you have not a problem or two but a constellation of issues
June 29th, 2010 at 7:26 pm
Don't worry — just give it some time. There's a girl out there for you.
Edit: Okay… what's up with all the thumbs downs?
June 30th, 2010 at 10:51 pm
Ha just reading what you wrote makes me not like you-get over yourself and you might have a chance
July 2nd, 2010 at 3:21 am
your so not near perfect! Come one you have to pay for dates its the dating code. Unless you want to be dumped. and you sound verbally abusive and phiscally
July 4th, 2010 at 11:07 pm
maybe they dont see that youre a really good guy????
July 5th, 2010 at 12:38 pm
girls don't like you bcuz you are SO stuck on yourself.
AND concieted.
sorry hun it's the truth
July 5th, 2010 at 9:51 pm
that's you problem. you are so convinced that you are NEAR perfect that you don't realize how many other faults you have. laugh at yourself more
July 9th, 2010 at 2:28 am
Sounds like you're NEAR a complete asshole. Girls hate over confidence, dude.
July 11th, 2010 at 9:45 am
Hahahahah
Honey, you can't even see you flaws.
Until you see them, and accept them, no self-respecting girl is going to accept them.
July 14th, 2010 at 8:02 pm
beats me i mean what girl wouldn't like someone who's judgemental and thinks they're perfect?i mean that's what i look for in a guy.
no but seriously man, being argumentative can be a big turn off. turn it down and just try to be accepting. congrats on all the positives and keep them but if you give the "i'm beautifully perfect" attitude to girls, they hate it.
July 16th, 2010 at 2:08 am
maybe it's because you think you are near perfect or come off that way. girls don't like guys who think they are all that. at least you can admit some of your flaws.
July 17th, 2010 at 12:11 am
You focus on your good qualities thinking that should make girls like you, but don't actually like them. You just want them. There's a difference and girls can spot it.
July 19th, 2010 at 5:37 am
If you change your self-righteous attitude then I am sure the girls will come running.
July 20th, 2010 at 1:48 pm
maybe your too ugly.
July 20th, 2010 at 10:16 pm
you've pretty much answered your own question
July 23rd, 2010 at 3:20 am
NO GIRLS LIKE YOU BECAUSE YOUR GOING TO HIT THEM!
that's an obvious reason.
July 26th, 2010 at 3:59 am
u seem a little full of yourself….. and hitting girls.. jeez.. no wonder
July 28th, 2010 at 12:20 pm
wait you believe in hitting girls?!?! Well, maybe thats why…be more…sensitive…
July 28th, 2010 at 11:53 pm
you seem to be a little self-involved
July 30th, 2010 at 12:37 pm
haha you seem like a pretty intense guy who knows what he believes in and wants in life so maybe since u are a christain u can think of it more like god hasnt sent you the right girl yet for you and waiting and being patient is just the way to go you know… someday u will find her and be happy you didnt waste your time with someone else who wouldnt have lasted anyways
August 1st, 2010 at 1:57 am
Your ego may be getting in da way but I tried to stay away from girls (just too nervous) when I started highschool and they wouldn't leave me alone so yea I don't kno
August 1st, 2010 at 11:29 pm
dude you answer your own question in the Second paragraph…
August 2nd, 2010 at 5:58 am
dude the way u jus said everythin makes u sound like a freak im sorry dog but u have to change your habits
August 5th, 2010 at 1:11 am
NO date!? omfg! Send me picutre of you so I can laugh !
August 5th, 2010 at 5:59 am
Well, I'm Catholic too. I am also German and Native American. I can't get a boyfriend. I am a high school junior. Maybe they are intimidated. I think that you are the male version of me hahaha. Another possibility is that you are destined to be with an older person:)
August 7th, 2010 at 4:56 pm
Reading the "NEAR perfect" made me not like you.
August 8th, 2010 at 3:28 am
maybe its the way you come off to them… by the way you just described yourself… and me not knowing you.. i would think you were the type of kid who is full of themself.. always has to be right and thinks they are better than everyone else. so my advice is to ease up a bit.. be a little more out going/easy going.. not giving up what you believe in.. but be flexible.. girls like bad boys… not assholes..
August 11th, 2010 at 8:07 am
This may be hard to accept but it's probably vanity. Just by saying your near perfect proves that even though you said NEAR. But, it could also not be that. It might be because of the judgemental part. Girls don't like to be judged. Other than that, you sound great!! I know I'd date you…Also your right about the self-defense reasons (though not any other time) but you may not want to say that to everyone. Good luck, you sound like an AMAZING guy!!
August 11th, 2010 at 12:55 pm
Well saying your near perfect is a start. But to me you sound really attractive. I'm a 17 year old girl by the way. All the qualities that you explained is everything that I look for in a guy. This guy just broke up with me because I wouldn't let him kiss me, because I didn't want to know my first kiss was going to happen. Do you think that is wrong? Don't worry. I think any girl would be lucky to have you as their boyfriend.
August 13th, 2010 at 1:18 pm
Here's what girls generally look for.
Honesty, Sensitivity (kinda hard on out soft on in), comfort, secuirity, do you act all depressed during school? girls like guys who are generally happy with themselves and life. EYEs, are big, eye contact all that. Show that you care about their feelings, you're not going to be noticing anything right away. And what do you do in first meeting that girls hate you, girls love me when they meet me, and I'm not the cutest guy in the world. But I do it "right" i guess you say
August 15th, 2010 at 9:51 pm
I don't like you already, especially if you believe in hitting girls. And you're no where near perfect. There's a reason why those girls don't like you. Grow up.
August 17th, 2010 at 1:58 pm
What about modesty! I have met some self absorbed guys and no offense but you kinda sound like one of them, again no offense.
August 18th, 2010 at 7:58 pm
I think you should start with becoming friends with a girl then let your relationship build to the point where it is more than friends.
And I think any guy who doesn't hit a girl just because she is a girl is sort of sexist because girls are independant individuals and if a guy won't fight her than it's because he is afraid that she is going to beat him up!!!
August 20th, 2010 at 3:09 am
UR wayyyy too full of yourself. stop focusing so much on yourself asshole
August 20th, 2010 at 5:22 am
DUDE, hello!!!!!
You gotta be more modest, cutback all the crap ur doin and just be chilled out. Hang with the guys and girls at school, etc.
HAVE FUN !!!!
LET LOOSE !!!!!
you do way too much and dont do what u truly want to do, apparently.
Just kick back a little and tlak with the girls more politely and layed back, then god for it.
August 21st, 2010 at 11:35 am
Maybe you need an attitude adjustment. I'm not trying to be mean, but if girls hate you as soon as you open your mouth, think about what you're saying! Try to get a handle on the argumentative/judgemental thing you got going. Be FRIENDLY and NICE. I'd even go as far as to advise you to be SWEET. People (especially girls) are automaticalkly drawn to positive people. Try going to a club or something where nobody knows you. Talk to a girl or two, remembering to be NICE! It sounds like you have a lot going for you, you just need to learn how to use it!
August 23rd, 2010 at 6:50 am
I'm straight edge: Anti-drugs(including alcohol),
-I'm a Christian, more specifically Catholic. I do attend church.
On the down side, I am VERY argumentive and judgemental. And I believe in hitting girls for self-defense reasons, because I've seen men abused by their girlfriends because they are afraid to hit them.
I'm NEAR perfect!
!!!! Yeah man you're awesome, who wouldn't want to be with a bible-thumping, opinionated, woman-beating, pompus a$$??
August 25th, 2010 at 9:26 pm
well i'm sorry to say but i'm a girl and, after reading that, i don't like you. you come across really badly, so imagine how much worse you come across in person.
August 29th, 2010 at 9:10 am
sorry, but you are definitely not anywhere neear perfect if you think hitting girls is okay. & the anti-gender things, thats where part of the romance comes from. girls like to be asked out. you need to show them that you care. thats why.
September 1st, 2010 at 7:31 am
you a fucking asshole if u believe that you need to hit girls for self defense.. and maybe your more fatter than you let on there huh big boy..? and ever think you not physically attractive?
September 3rd, 2010 at 5:24 pm
read your description carefully-you are obviously a faggot
September 3rd, 2010 at 8:39 pm
You seem like a really nice guy from what you've said. It doesn't mean that it is your fault that you haven't been asked out. Don't feel too bad about it! Make sure that you have confidence because that is always the first thing I notice in a guy. Maybe you just haven't found the right person out there yet. There are many people in the world to chose from and it's okay that you haven't found the right one. There is someone out there looking just like you. Never give up. Don't sweat the small things. Enjoy life; you are still young and have a lot of time to find the perfect someone. Keep hanging in there! :]
September 4th, 2010 at 8:46 pm
You also aren't very humble are you? You are not perfect - or even close. This may be the problem. They think, that you think that you are better than them. You are also a bit self absorbed.
You NEVER hit women no matter what - you walk away from an abusive woman. It is too easy for a man - particularly one who works out - to do more damage to a woman than she can ever do to him.
September 6th, 2010 at 4:36 am
Dude even if a girl hits you you don't hit her back. It doesn't mean you have to let yourself get hit, but laying a hand on anyone in anger is just crap.
Anyway from your description I get the feeling that you are pretty close minded and judgmental, heck you even admitted to the last one. People don't like that, they like openness and acceptance. If you're going to openly judge others you know nothing about then why can't other people judge you when they hardly know you, ie the girls you are going after.
Time to take a hard look in the mirror.
September 8th, 2010 at 2:51 am
you sound like a great guy! I'm getting a boner reading this!