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WHAT WOULD ARE APPROPRIATE QUESTIONS TO ASK MATURE MAN WHILE DATING?
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makeda asked:
I am meddlesome in dating a male who is 55 years of age, he has his masters is not long ago late and owns a expert business. I will be 50 years of age have a high propagandize diploma and now still employed.
I am meddlesome in dating a male who is 55 years of age, he has his masters is not long ago late and owns a expert business. I will be 50 years of age have a high propagandize diploma and now still employed.
He has invited me to ask questions of him and for a little secret reason I am incompetent to ask questions of him. At times, he has referred to he feels unhappy since he is meddlesome in me and he no longer contacts me as mostly as once did. I do similar to this chairman and I do not wish this chairman to lose all seductiveness in me.
I have asked him the simple questions, if he ever married, do you have kids and pets, what have been your likes and dislikes, and what do you similar to to do when he isn’t working. These have been deceptive questions and I would similar to to ask him poignant questions, and no alternative questions appear to come to mind to ask of him.
26 Comments
May 3rd, 2010 at 6:01 pm
- The good thing about chemistry is that, you don't need to plan the conversation. If you two are into each other, the conversation will flow on it's own. Otherwise, I don't have any suggestions.
May 6th, 2010 at 3:02 pm
Ask him if he would like a lumpkin.
May 8th, 2010 at 2:52 am
Seriously, what can the two of you possibly have in common? If you can't find anything to talk about without trying to force it, then you are both wasting your time.
May 8th, 2010 at 5:04 am
ask him why he's interested in you, what did he see or hear that he liked
May 9th, 2010 at 11:39 pm
you should not have to ask questions until you feel like you have something on your mind that you want to know. This guy needs to relax. You have your whole lifetime to figure him out–if he's the right one.
May 12th, 2010 at 9:20 am
"He has invited me to ask questions of him…"
Sounds like you're wasting your time. If he were interested in you, he'd be the one asking the questions about you.
May 14th, 2010 at 6:24 am
ask any long term relationships
May 14th, 2010 at 5:58 pm
Maybe take him to a museum, and you could discuss what he thinks and feels about the different pieces of art. You could also go to a movie together and ask his impression of it. You could always just discuss his opinions on todays current events.
May 17th, 2010 at 1:12 pm
If he answered that he was never married a followup question would be "why?"
You could also ask him what he is looking for in a woman.
May 19th, 2010 at 12:57 pm
ask him: how do you feel about having a partner who is decidedly inferior in education and status?
May 21st, 2010 at 7:07 pm
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May 23rd, 2010 at 4:24 am
Ask him if he uses Viagra.
May 23rd, 2010 at 1:05 pm
you can try asking him what his next step in life is. does he like to travel and see the world or would he rather have a cozy life at home.
if there is anything that he could change in life, what would it be?
has he ever had any regrets?
May 25th, 2010 at 3:02 pm
ask him about his life, about traveling, what his aspirations are for the future. ask him about his childhood, hobbies etc. you should find a common round with him. that will make it alot easier. i hope it works out for you.
May 28th, 2010 at 12:18 am
Have you ever asked him exactly what he does as a consultant? Ask him to explain the process that he goes through in making his decisions for those who consult him. Ask him to give you an example. Not only will you be showing an interest in what he does but will end up leaning something new.
May 30th, 2010 at 8:45 pm
Ask him how does he feel about you.
Ask him what he sees in the relationship the two of you currently have.
When two people are dating and liking each other regardless of age and educational background, I am pretty sure two people would like to know more about how each other feel about each other.
Less of course one party is not looking to be in a committed relationship.
May 31st, 2010 at 8:57 pm
It's hard when one person in a relationship is better educated, because, in your case, he has more to talk about.
You can ask what type of music he prefers, who his favorite artist is, what wild and crazy things he did in college, or better yet, ask him about stuff YOU are interested in….Photography? Politics? Nature?
You need to find some common ground or else your relationship will go stagnate, really quickly.
June 2nd, 2010 at 8:47 am
To learn..is to ask questions… maybe he thinks that ( hic ) you are a dummy…… ask him about ( burp ) what he does and about his ( hic ) past…..
June 2nd, 2010 at 8:59 am
Topics of interest - religion, current affairs, books. What are his long term aspirations? It appears that he needs to feel your depth more than he is/was. Hence the reduced contact.
June 5th, 2010 at 1:39 pm
Why don't you ask him about his job, where has he travelled or would like to travel, his family, his friends, if he has any goals he would like to accomplish and how he plans on accomplishing, ask him to tell you something he always wanted to do but has not yet done. Ask him about his life, his childhood, where he grew up, his politics, his favorite foods, foods he hates.
Once you two really start to converse, really listen to him. He'll give you clues about himself and you can just ask about details of things he has said.
June 8th, 2010 at 1:54 am
One: ask him things that you might be able to discuss - you know, mutual interests.
Two: ask him things that he might know something about - this will get him talking - like something related to his field of interest (make it socially related, i.e., read something in the newspaper related to his knowledge base) - you don't want it to sound like a job interview
Three: talk to him about current events, music, books, plays, movies, etc. However, in order to do this - experience it yourself - read; go to movies, plays, museums, sporting events; read the newspaper, etc
June 10th, 2010 at 4:36 pm
Make him feel comfort by being yourself
or make him feel surprised by acting like a Yahoo! asker.
June 12th, 2010 at 2:44 pm
Ask him fantasy questions. What would be your perfect vacation and who would you go with? Have you ever made love on a beach? Follow up with (staring into his eyes) would you like to?
Looks like you have asked the basics on the past. Look towards the furture and ask "what would you like to do and/or where would you like to go… with me?
June 15th, 2010 at 5:29 am
Girl, you have to learn to turn the tables around. Why should you ask, tell him to ask you fun questions. I think conversations are better than Q's and A's. You are a women so you are smarter than him no matter what. lol Want to get him interested fast? Its a song; Lets talk about sex baby, lets talk about you and me… Look he is old and he wants to belong so you are not providing. he is longing for a feeling of belonging.. Well heck what do I know..I am not telling you to sleep with him but talk about it. He is not 20. So he just wants to hear about it.
June 17th, 2010 at 12:25 am
honey you have to second and third level probe,,
whenever he says something you have to ask him something else about what he just stated.
ie…."i never liked florida"
you….well why not?
him … it rained too much.
you…well what cities did you visit
him…miami
you….hey maybe it was just the rainy season, florida is pretty long, did you ever visit any other city maybe further north
him…no
you…well you see, you cant judge, where else have you traveled too.
…. how was that
…..when i travel i look at the architecture and like to learn about the history of the …..
and i could go on and on,, these are conversation skills. you interject and ask . you obviously are boring to him because you have no conversation
ps,,, you want to get him a little rowled,,,,try to gear the conversation a little bit towards sex,, dont be raunchy,,,,,but sex is always a stimulating conversation…. as a matter of fact you could tell him what i have mentioned, see how he reacts and start probing with other questions or maybe things in your past
June 20th, 2010 at 11:41 am
(Ask him) Biggest achievment/ Favorite memory/ First time in love/ Ultimate goal in life/ Ultimate dream in life/ Favorite subject in school(and why?) First kiss/ Favorite book/ How he feels about his family and what they are about/ How he feels about politics/ Religon/ Ancesstors/ Favorite wild animal(and why?) Stupidist mistake/ Best mistake/ Art/ Artist/ Actor/ Musician/ Dance/ Dancer/ Broken bones/ Favorite car/ Favorite city/ Best president/ Sports/ Biggest fear/ etc.etc. He wants you to get inside of his mind and make him think. Create scenarios and ask him "what would you do?" Then you have to remember his answers and treat him like you havent forgot them and you never will.. Sounds like he is genuine and doesnt want a woman thats to be with him for his money, cuz it sounds like he his loaded..GoodLuck…