I WANT/NEED TO UNDERSTAND WHY HE NO LONGER CARES ENOUGH TO PUT AN EFFORT INTO FORMING SOMETHING WITH ME?

sinequanon asked:


I am a twenty-five year old grown up female. i have been going to my gym for scarcely 3years now. I've been saying this man ( who is 37 with a seventeen y/o) there for the longest time and never suspicion he was meddlesome in me. in Dec he starts vocalization to me tellin me which he saw me on a dating website but wasnt certain it was me. He told me to demeanour him up since I didn't recollect my name on the site. So we proposed analogous and he texts me on the friday to ask me if I longed for to see a movie. I declined since I already had skeleton so we went out the subsequent friday… the chemistry was good I felt all captivated to him physically and he wild me mentally… We favourite the same things and talked for hours after. The following week I would go to the gym and he would come after afterwards he would encounter me by my residence and we would usually lay in the car and speak for similar to dual hours (mon-thurs of which week). The thursday he even asked me to go with him so he could demeanour at a little houses and apartments. He told me how hes been deceived on and how he wants to be in a critical relationship. More and some-more as I talked to him I beheld which his convos became some-more passionate and all we ever did was kiss. It seemed which which was the usually thing he would speak about when he would email me. And the uncanny thing is he would go on which dating website and send me messages which were passionate at slightest once a day… he had my phone array and he couldve texted me.. he usually proposed behaving weird. So i wrote him a note asking what only it is he is seeking for from me since i dont think we have been on the same page. He abandoned it and didnt answer at all. Then I saw him at the gym and he attempted to action similar to normal similar to I never asked the question. He told me since he likes me alot but someone else in the gym is freally posterior me and staked claiim on me btu I already told him i did not similar to which man at all.

So I asked him if i could take him to cheesecake bureau the subsequent friday and he was similar to yes really which would be fun. So the subsequent week proposed out ok. Then one day I left the gym early he texts me asking where i went. i told him to my residence and he pronounced he would encounter me… I waited for 40mins prior to he came. I called and texted to see if he wwas still entrance inside of thoes 40 mins with no answer until right prior to he came. He didnt discuss it me what was going on but he pronounced form as articulate to his son. his appearance was opposite which usual… he seemed so cold and isolated and appear so austere when he pronounced he doesnt certitude us women at all during infrequent conversation… he usually seemed so different. he did lick me goodbye but it was weird. which thurs I texted to see if we were still going on fri and he didnt answer… I texted him again prior to I went to bed and he eventually answered sayin no lets set it up for an additional time since he was carrying a problme with his son who was unwell a math class….
So i went to the gym on friday and who do I see there? Him and he acts similar to the zero which he deserted me. So out of being harm I texted him and asked him to be honest with me and discuss it me what it is he wants from me and to let me know if he is concerned with alternative people so which i know where we stand.. He abandoned it. Sent me a summary onoline sunday asking "how have you been". I saw him at the gym mon and he attempted to speak to me and i pronounced no u omit me i dont wanna speak and he told me he didnt get my content but i know which is a distortion since my texts were a array of texts he should have at slightest gotten one out of the four.

i am usually so hurt… i never had chemistry with someone similar to which prior to and it is so tough to get over it… im similar to great inside. what do you guys think